Today, we honor the life and legacy of Frederick John Cox Jr., a beloved son, friend, and colleague whose journey was tragically cut short during the September 11, 2001 attacks.
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What Happened?
At just 27 years old, Frederick was an investment banker at Sandler O’Neill, working on the 104th floor of the South Tower at the World Trade Center in New York City. On that fateful day, when terrorists attacked the towers, Frederick’s bright future and vibrant life ended too soon—along with thousands of other innocent souls.
Who Was Frederick John Cox Jr.?
Known to family and friends as “Fred,” he was a man full of life, energy, and charm. His green eyes sparkled with mischief, and his warmth made everyone around him feel welcome. Friends often described him as a “glutton for life,” someone who embraced every moment with passion and joy.
Fred was not only a dedicated investment banker, but also a lover of the arts and leisure. His hobbies included painting, writing, golfing, shopping, and savoring good food. He believed in living life to the fullest—and he truly did.
Background and Personal Life
Fred grew up in a loving family, though his parents divorced when he was only eight years old. Despite challenges, his caring and thoughtful nature shone through. Every Valentine’s Day, he gave his mother a single rose—a gesture of deep affection. He often called his father his “best friend,” reflecting the strong bonds that shaped his character.
Later, Fred’s path took him to Manhattan, where he thrived in the fast-paced city life. Yet, he always cherished the serenity of his family’s summer home by Lake Winnipesaukee in New Hampshire. There, he would relax on his favorite swing under a sign that read:
“Love what you love.”
This simple yet profound mantra mirrored how Fred lived his life—full of love, joy, and authenticity.
Public and Personal Tributes
Following Fred’s passing, friends, colleagues, and loved ones shared countless tributes, remembering him as a man of integrity, humor, and adventure. His girlfriend, Annelise Peterson, described him as a “glutton for life”—someone who could bring warmth and laughter to any room. The outpouring of grief and admiration reflected the deep impact Fred had on everyone who knew him.
His Legacy
Fred’s family and friends continue to celebrate his memory, striving to live by his motto:
“Love what you love.”
Though his time on earth was short, his spirit remains an enduring reminder to embrace life fully and cherish every moment. His story speaks of resilience, passion, and an unwavering zest for life—a legacy that will live on through the laughter, love, and joy he shared with those around him.
A Life Well Lived
Fred’s life reminds us that happiness lies in the little things, and love is the greatest gift we can give and receive. His journey, though brief, will continue to inspire countless hearts for generations.
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